This is certainly a situation that is truly difficult you all, made more challenging by your daughter’s jealousy of her dad.

This is certainly a situation that is truly difficult you all, made more challenging by your daughter’s jealousy of her dad.

I do believe it may be better if both you and your spouse spelled out your expectations of her as a group. This can send her the message he are a primary team, and she cannot muscle in on it that you and.

With her alone first, it might enhance the sense she seems to have that you and she are the inner circle, and your husband is the outsider trying to be included if you were to speak.

It seems like a lot to show and expect from a kid, but We have constantly believed – and found – we who fall short that it is. Our youngsters are designed for much more than we let them have credit for, if only we’re prepared to use the danger and touch base.

It’s wonderful that you imagine in tackling these issues head-on, because that’s the way that is only. It is hard now, but are going to be much tougher in a few years, using the tweens becoming very nearly as watershed a period of life given that teenagers, when it comes to behavior modification an such like.

It might be interesting to observe how and just why your daughter has continued to develop this feeling that the spouse is (or should always be) contending together with her for the attention.